This is not a trick question, as odd as it may seem at this moment to some readers.
I've been asked quite a few times, "How can you love unconditionally without boundaries, rules, and tough love?" My humble answer, "Unconditional love does not mean no instruction nor no boundaries; and, yes, unconditional love can certainly feel like tough love especially when the hard truth is undeniably staring me or any of us directly in the mirror."
This post is unconditional tough love & my personal assessment of myself, my nation, and the world as the INterconnected UNIverse that I YOUniquely currently know it deep in my soul.
In private counseling sessions clearing stuck energy, with clients digging for their own roots, we alert one another in advance if possible if a question could trigger digging withIN deeper & deeper. WARNING POTENTIAL TRIGGERS IN THIS POST.
Triggers simply, INherently reveal right where the heart of the energetical blockages are.
Thank you in advance for being here and being absolutely BEautiful JUST AS YOU ARE.
IT TRULY IS AN HONOR YOU WOULD EVEN CHOOSE TO BE HERE WITH ME.
Suicide rates have been rising in tandem with legalized "illegal" mandates that have long been stripping humanity of its basic human rights all in the name of in$titutional indu$trialization of every single realm held sacred to WE THE PEOPLE OF THE WORLD.
Here in the US the deterioration of the family has grown out of control and has long spilled over into violence in the streets. Adults once all were children. The collective big problem communicating with one another did not spring up over night.
Most "well intentioned" parents have willingly handed their children over to the $y$tem po$ing as $school$ that are to this day still segregated by age, class, subject, in many gender & religion, with a fierce revival to add dividing by color back into the propaganda game that has long been stifling the AUTHENTIC connection children of ALL NEED to thrive ages newborn to the elderly.
As a Whole Life Educator the number #1 question I, my children, and the students & families I have served since 2000, "How do you plan to socialize your children?" My answer has always been simply, segregation is not socializing." Segregation of our schools has been communism masking as socialization ALL ALONG. Many have been too blind to see it & recognize it because the $y$tem$ have been compulsory with no *real* free choice & have long been in place. "I turned out just fine," is the most common response of skeptics, most of who are products of a lack of an *authentic* social life, pumped with irrational distrust that produces miscommunication, infidelity, division from withIN, & divorce. Divorcees with children know *the split* does not eliminate the problems withIN their relationship and unconsciously dump the consequences spilling onto their kids flipping them back and forth like pendulums between dysfunctionally socially trained adults.
"Well intentioned" parents use biased persuasion, which is really soft manipulation, to convince their children that a busied-do-death prioritized life some how "keeps their kids off the streets." Fears do not exist. Danger is VERY REAL. Danger arises sometimes seemingly out of nowhere, but most often dangerous situations are created by individuals who DO NOT KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE & revert to protector modes of fight, flight, & freeze causing a cascade of social issues some have seen, MOST have habitually ignored, that has been bubbling for MANY decades, spilling out into the streets. What we collectively see out there on the streets has long been created first in the home. Ill truth is always hard to take. "Rebels" don't just dream up fights, mass shootings, most from withIN, and riots. Rebels are VERY FRUSTRATED people sick & tired of being not heard and told to "shut up & just do what you are told to do." Children have had their schedules hyper controlled running to and fro and have fallen in the rutted line by trained propaganda by design of the 1963 Congressional Adoption of The Communist Manifesto and have been poisoned repeatedly since birth justified by ghost writer's pa$$ing lie$ down the tube with needling precision to target, censore, & execute ANY ONE not towing the line.
Learning how to actually carry on a conversation with multiple ages is necessary forW cohesion. Midlife crisis once used to be spoken of quite clearly, "I am 40-50 and how did I get here. This is NOT the life I was sold & never given the real choice to buy for myself." Midlife crisis today is occurring between the ages of 13-30. What happened??? The kids have actually paid attention to their frustrated, stressed out, fear mongering, anxious parents, and they have listened so well they are screaming NO MORE and telling us all they have no clear who they are. Mid Life Crisis just got a new name called Identity Crisis. The force-fed, boxed-in fast lanes are a blur where nothing is clearly seen nor heard.
The kids got smart! TRUTH, WE ARE ARE SMARTER THAN WE EVER HAVE BEEN THE CREDIT THATWE DESERVE- or the system would have worked & we'd not see what we are seeing today. The kids have been quite resourceful & creative on their own.
How have they done folks with what they've been taught?
Do you think they need better guides than the conveyor belt machine that raised them 8-10 hours a day with their weekends fully apportioned out?
Or do you think WE ADULTS need some interventions to teach self assessment that has never been considered necessary by bounds of standardizations?
So, now that the people of the world have been punished & "grounded" by The Crowning Virus for over a year and half, the self assessment questions asked in therapy sessions to those having been "disciplined" by being "grounded go something, "What have you learned, child, sitting punished in your room? Have you thought how you could've handled what you did, that problem you created, any better than you did? How do you propose you'll behave the next time someone or something like that tries to persuade you to do 'wrong'?"
Did that quarantine punishment when you weren't sick work for you? How about two Thanksgivings you sent your kids to school sick because they'd be expelled if they did not have near perfect attendance or may be YOU were one that chose to go to work and got the office sick because you would've been fired. One of the biggest signs above Highway 85 near where I live read last year, "If your sick, stay home." My kids asked, "Why do there have to be SO many signs of the obvious common sense people ought to know?"
So why do WE collectively not know what common sense is?
At this dire point most these questions are now irrelevant.
System disruptors/pattern interrupters like me,
WE DO NOT AGRIVATE, WE ACTIVATE.
AND WE ACTIVATED A LONG TIME AGO.
We've been here along doing more than just fine, just not seen nor heard by those whizzing by in their chosen fast lanes. So, now that the world has been grounded, we'll watch and see what we've chosen to learn for ourselves, and actions will always speak louder than words.
If you do not see, and worse do not look, DOES NOT MEAN THOSE AROUND YOU ARE DOING NOTHING. That's just absurd. We are not an absurd nation, just one whose been intentionally mind controlled by propaganda and false fears shoved up our noses and down our throats Since the late 1800s when Dewey, Rockefeller, Carnegie, & Swift and dreamed up how they would take us down from withIN starting from the top down.
THE TABLES HAVE BEEN FLIPPED AND WE ARE COLLECTIVELY RESTORING OUR WORLD FROM WITHIN THE HEART OF EVERY CHILD, WOMAN, & MAN.
How are we collectively doing so far?
WE ARE ALL DOING EXACTLY BEAUTIFUL!!! AND RIGHT ON TIME IN EACH OUR OWN YOUNIQUE TIME.
The slow lane provides the scenery and sounds. Take a look & a listen and note what you see.
The tests of life happen constantly, no one can take your test for us, there are no do-overs, no re-takes, but there are seconds by the seconds of second chances with infinite time. Keep asking ALL YOUR OWN QUESTIONS as the pop up from INside you, the questions & answers are each YOUniquely all our own. There are no right or wrongs merely vital lessons to be learned.
Keep a journal, write plenty of notes, & DOODLES ARE ALLOWED (actually proven to aid the brain in forming comprehension with massive neural highways).
We'll see how we've collectively done with the statistical rates summoned with the 2030 consensus. And, we'll each compare those statistics with what we actually have experienced.
IN THE MEANTIME, PACE-ANCE IS MORE THAN KEY, IT IS VITAL FOR THRIVING WELL.
KEEP LEARNING, KEEP SHINING, WE ARE ALL WATCHING AND LISTENING CLOSELY AS WE COLLECTIVELY FIGURE OUT WHAT WE EACH ARE DOING.
Everything and every one is INterconnected, and everything is FIGURE-OUT-ABLE.
LEARN HOW TO TRUST YOURSELF AS YOU LEARN HOW TO LEARN FOR YOURSELF.
And if no one has told you lately, YOU are wildly & unconditionally loved by the Indivisible God The Creator of ALL who can never be divided by warring religions, their puppeted governments, nor divisive ideologies. But sometimes the walk here in this life gets lonely, be not afraid, at the least I TRULY LOVE YOU & BELIEVE IN THE POTENTIAL OF WHO YOU ALREADY ARE CREATED TO BE JUST AS YOU ARE RIGHT NOW!